Friendship Day messages

Friendship Day messages for your best friend

Friendship Day is a slightly silly occasion that gives you a decent excuse to say something you have never actually said. These six are for the friend who has been there through several versions of you.

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Six messages you could actually send

Continue writing opens that message in the card with the words already in it, so all that is left is to change a word and send it. The last message is the longest of the six, and it is the only one you have to copy across yourself.

  1. Happy Friendship Day. You've stayed through a long list of my bad decisions and never held a single one of them over me. I don't know what made you decide I was worth that much patience, but I'm glad you did. ❤️

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  2. Happy Friendship Day. Some friendships need constant upkeep. Ours picks up mid-sentence after three months of nothing, and I've never once had to explain myself to you. I've been quietly grateful for that for years.

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  3. Happy Friendship Day. You've known me through about four different versions of myself and stayed for every one, including the ones I'd rather nobody remembered. Thank you for never keeping score of any of it.

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  4. Happy Friendship Day. We've been friends long enough that it counts as family now, unsolicited opinions and terrible photographs included. I wouldn't renegotiate a single clause of it.

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  5. Happy Friendship Day. Thank you for being the person I can send complete nonsense to at 1am and hear back from at two minutes past. A fairly large amount of what keeps me sane is somewhere in that chat. ❤️

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  6. Happy Friendship Day. Some friendships need constant upkeep, and ours picks up mid-sentence after three months of nothing at all, which I've been quietly grateful for since about the second year. You've known me through several fairly different versions of myself and stayed for all of them.

Writing your own

Say how long, and what has changed in you. The value of a very old friendship is that it has survived several versions of a person. Naming that — four different versions of myself — is a compliment nobody else is in a position to pay.

Do not apologise for the gaps. Long adult friendships run on months of silence and it is not a failing. Saying that ours picks up mid-sentence is warmer and truer than sorry I have been bad at keeping in touch, which turns a card into an apology.

A silly occasion is still a good excuse to write down something true.

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